Daily Journal: Dealing with People’s Peculiarities in Your Christian Life
Minister Denise N. Fyffe
The Bible says that we are created in the image of God and yet we are all unique. There are many things that makes any two people dissimilar – from their characteristics, behavior, personality, to our physical traits or even our culture. But the one thing that often causes friction are our preferences.
I prefer grapenut ice cream with Chocolate syrup, you might prefer plain vanilla.
You prefer watching Sunday night football, with the guys. Your wife might prefer to read a book or watch comedies.
Your wife prefers that you spend time with her and ask her about her day. You might prefer to come in take a shower, have dinner and crash for the night.
Your brother keeps a messy room, and you wash everything in a timely manner and don’t have a shoe out of place.
You love dogs, and your family like cats.
You like silence, order and routine. Your neighbors have people over ever night, playing loud music and games.
Your roommate prefers to spend wash the dishes in the morning. You prefer a tidy kitchen at all times.
You see, what you might love and enjoy, maybe a source of agitation for someone else. How you handle this situation determines your future relationship with that individual. So long as that behavior is not immoral or causes harm to another person, then oftentimes, it is best to let that person be – especially if they are the argumentative type that would take offense to your opinions or suggestions.
If you are in a shared environment temporarily, let it go for peace sake.
If not, devise a wise course of action. Let sleeping dogs lie, is a popular and wise saying. However, many battles are often won on our knees. Pray to God about the matter and yield to His wise guidance.
A soft answer turneth away wrath, but grevious words stir up anger. – Proverbs 15:1
Everybody has their peculiarities or preferences. Be wise as you navigate these landmines.
The Invitation
I invite you today to take a deep look at yourself and reflect on your life. Are you searching for something more? Are you satisfied with how things are today? Is God calling you to confess your sins, be baptized and accept Jesus Christ as your Lord and Savior? Have you been ignoring him? Have you been facing immense hardships and challenges? What can you do to take the first step?
Trust God to help you with that first step.
Be encouraged.
Be bold.
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It shall be well with you, in Jesus mighty name.
And remember, be encouraged.
About the writer:
Minister Denise N. Fyffe is a devoted Christian, author, and servant of God, whose life is guided by her faith and values. Since accepting Jesus Christ at a young age, she has made it her mission to share her journey. She also shares her knowledge of the Bible with others. Besides her passion for writing, Minister Fyffe is actively involved in outreach, Christian mentorship, and ministering the Word of God.
